There are many differences between the American and Chinese cultures, and even if you date Chinese Girls in USA, you will have to behave differently if you want to impress her. Maybe she won’t understand some of your jokes, or maybe she would expect you to be different. The Online Dating Tips that you use for American and European girls might not work, so it is a good idea to know a few things about this culture, about how to make Chinese Women feel good, and about words that they find to be offensive.
- How to invite her :
We suppose that you meet your women online, and even if you meet a girl from China in the real life, don’t hesitate to ask her out for a dinner fast. Chinese people don’t like to hide beneath words, and they speak frankly about what they want, so prove that you are courageous and ask her out in the moment when you see the first “sparkle” in here eyes. She will not refuse, even if she is not interested in you, because meeting people out is common in China.
The fact that Chinese Girls accept to meet fast for a coffee or dinner is an advantage, but it is tricky at the same time. In the American culture, a girl that accepts a date is probably interested about the man that asked her, but with a girl from China, this is only the beginning of your “journey”. You will have to impress her from the first date, and to show her that you are interested in a serious relationship, as Chinese Women are usually looking for long term commitments.
- What to do during the date :
Of course, your possibility to be successful since the first date depends on the personality of the girl, and on your charming skills, but generally, all the Chinese Girls have some common characteristics. For example, they will tell you frankly from the start that they like or they don’t like something. Are you a smoker? She will surely tell you not to smoke, if she is not into this habit. Do you like to stay close to her, to touch her sometimes to see her reactions? Just don’t do that. The Chinese Women need some time to get used with any men, and you will have to wait for her response reactions.
However, be careful not to be confused by some “fake” signs. As said before, just because you are on a date with a Chinese girl does not mean that you will get that kiss at the end of the date! (Tip: if you play your cards right, you will get a lot more, but you will need some real Don Juan skills to do that!)
Smiles can be misleading signs. A Chinese girl smiles all the time, with no apparent reason. Moreover, they smile so naturally that you won’t be able to make the difference between a courtesy and a real smile. A Chinese girl smiling at you does not mean that she likes you. If you make some good jokes, you will see her laughing, and this is surely good for you.
Just like other girls, the Asians give signals to men, but they will never make the first step. The Chinese Women express their interest by asking questions about you. She will probably be shy at first, expecting you to start the conversation. If she likes what you say, she will start asking questions, and this is the sign that you are on a good path.